THE BREAK UP!

How many of you who can tell me that they broke up with their significant other and were happy? For those who said "I", I envy you, for those who remained silent, I empathize with you.

Breaking up is never easy for both sexes especially if both still have feelings for each other. For whatever reason that a couple should part ways, it was always difficult and normally it is VERY painful. I should know the feeling because I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I caught him flirting with other women and up to this very minute, he's denying it. It's a long distance relationship and I have never seen him in person yet. But we planned to see each other after two years. I guess that it will never happen anymore.

I am in so much pain right now. There are no words to describe how I truly feel at the moment. Even though that I only met him online, I gave my heart and soul for this relationship; because that is who I am. When I love somebody, I am truthful and faithful. I always give my 100% love and devotion.

“BREAK-UP” means goodbye. Goodbye to the person you loved, goodbye to the relationship, and goodbye to the feelings of both happy and sad. But “BREAK-UP” also means HELLO! Hello to the new world away from your former love, possibly hello to a new love, hello to a possible new relationship and hello to a new and exhilarating feelings.

I am not saying that one should enter another relationship right after the break up. Because I know it won’t be easy. What I am saying is that there is something worth to look forward to. I know! I know! You guys are telling me that it’s easier said than done. Yes! I agree with you. I am in the situation now and I am hurting terribly but what can I do? Anyway, as I was saying, one should mend his/her heart first and make himself/herself whole again in order to give love and be loved again.

So to those who are mourning for the loss of their former love, this is for us. Let’s hope that things will be better for us in the future.